What Kind of Fire Are You?
I recently attended a workshop for self discovery. The retreat’s goal was to give participants time for personal reflection, and aimed at helping you to find what your true purpose and goals are in life. This type of thing really interests me, and relates very well to another one of my favorite topics “The Element” by Ken Robinson, which I talked about here.
During the workshop we were asked the question “What kind of fire are you?” as a reflective exercise. This fire is a metaphor for your life and your inner passion. How strong do you feel that you are doing the thing you were meant to do?
- Are you a tea-light, just shining so dim, but still lit? Maybe you still have a little glimmer of passion regarding your career or passions in life, but have lost some of it along the way. Maybe some of it was not your choice. Maybe other things took the front burner.
- Maybe you are a candle? Enjoying what you do, burning at a very sensible rate and doing things you love, but maybe not to the extent you would like.
- Are you a campfire? Maybe you are fulfilling your passions and even helping to spread them to others when you can…
- Or are you even lit? Maybe you are so far removed from the things that get you ticking that you forgot what they are and have not tapped into them for quite some time. Pretty powerful stuff.
I didn’t share this with the group, but guess what kind of fire I decided I was? I was a controlled ditch fire. I live in Iowa and grew up in the country. When they burn ditches they seem out of control, spanning for great lengths in the ditches to burn down the brush. But someone IS in control of them, they rarely become out of control, and do the job they are intended for and then put out. Sometimes I think I have so many goals, so many passions and so many things I just can’t wait to do. Sometimes I maybe need to harness my energy down to the burn of a candle so it can be focused on one thing. Maybe some people live their whole lives as a ditch fire??? It doesn’t sound very glamorous, but it does sound exciting.
I know I was meant to teach art. I have known this since I was in the third grade. I also know that my fire lights even brighter when I help other teachers with professional development to maximize their potential as teachers. I am still on this journey to find the balance between the two that can use my talents and abilities to their fullest potential.
So, on a day that focuses on “flaming hot romance” I must ask about fire of a different kind….
What kind of fire are you?